Rhododendron Anthopogon: Warm, drawing in, back and down, remembering the old days, remembering good times, reconciliation.

• Rhododendron is goood for people who have cut themselves off from their own past, heritage, people of the past including who they once were. Helps heal broken lifelines; also across past lives. Excellent for loss, bereavement and to create reconciliation.

A man's wife of many years has died. He is heart broken and distraught and still, he has to deal with the particulars of her burial and the funeral details.

When the undertaker asks him what kind of flowers he would like to be on the coffin, he remembers a special kind - once, as a very young man, he had stolen these flowers from the garden of a rich man, made them into a bouquet and given them to a young girl who he hoped would be his wife.

Try Rhododendron if you need help with...